Controlling anger is not a touch thing to do; at the same time, its not tough either. Controlling anger and learning to manage it definitely requires some practice.
Controlling anger in relationships can really improvise the levels of trust and understanding between partners. In this article we are not going to teach you how to control your anger, you can check this if you really need some tips. In this article we are about to post a story on how the anger or temperament can damage your life.
There once was a little boy who had a very bad temper. His father decided to hand him a bag of nails and said that every time the boy lost his temper, he had to hammer a nail into the fence.
On the first day, the boy hammered 37 nails into that fence. The boy gradually began to control his temper over the next few weeks, and number of nails he was hammering into the fence slowly decreased. He discovered it was easier to control his temper than to hammer those nails into the fence.
Finally, the day came when the boy didn’t lose his temper at all. He told his father the news and the father suggested that the boy should now pull out a nail every day he kept his temper under control.
The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone. The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence.
“you have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won’t matter how many times you say I’m sorry, the wound is still there.”
Controlling anger outburst, particularly with a toddler or your child can really help him / her gain more love and affection towards you. So try to keep your anger in control the next time you get nervous with someone you love.